10 things you must learn before you enter marriage.

 

Marriage is a union between two partners. The partners agreed to be together after the love for one another has reached its apex. Sometimes it may be an influence of one partner or both. Mostly, partners may have a reason for getting into marriage which may differ or be the same. In a situation where partners have different goal for the marriage make the marriage a disastrous and others who seem to have the same goal for entering into marriage succeed. Therefore, to choose a best matched partner you must consider the following well researched guidelines.

1. financial compatibility

of financial support. The partners before marriage must identify their financial needs in order to be able to look into the future of the union. Some people marriage because of support that they can get from the other partner while some do not depend on the other for any form.

2. religious status

Some religion and their believes have a great impact on marriage. Religion shapes a life of an individual to extend that one may find it difficult to accept other ways of living. So, before you choose a partner one must look into the religious practices and their whole believe system.

3. tribe difference

Rules and life principles that some tribe upholds have a great influence on their choice of partners. Every tribe is raised from a unique moral background which form their personality. Coming together as a couple, the two partners must agree on their differences.

4. educational status

Education as a means of gathering knowledge, skills and experiences which will make one accept the other of equally educational background. Sometime education brings a great difference among people especially when one acquires more knowledge than the other.

5. employment type

employment as a means of acquiring a worth to support one partner sometimes pose a problem when the type of the employment one chooses does not favor the other partner.

6. age difference

we popularly say that age is just a number, but it matters a lot when it comes to a choice of partner in marriage. Some men prefer young girl whom they are older than in the sense that female grow old fast when they start giving birth, but some also believe that ladies who are old and mature get a lot of experience therefore it does not matter whether the lady is older or not.

7. family background

Family histories play significant role in a choice of spouse. Some people are from a family who have long history of some chronic disease. Some have bad attitude that you may not know until you enter into the marriage before, they will show their real color.

8. ones aim for the marriage

now because of impatience a lot of people regrated marrying their partners. Some people enter into marriage for their selfish gain. A lady may agree to marry a man because of a favor she wants from the man. Some guys to enter into a relationship with a lady just to get support from the lady and achieve their sexual desires other than raising a kid.

9.  personality make up

the look of a person is the first attractive part that brings partners together for the start of the relationship. Outside beauty easily make a lot of people fall in love despite the bad inside character. Some people prefer marrying people with good outside beauty or handsomeness and later regrated marrying them.

10.               One`s previous relationship matters

Past experience in the previous relationship issues teaches a great lesson about the kind of partner that will be best. Some people have gone through a hell in their relationship matters and as such they are too smart to avoid the same mistakes.