Marriage is a
union between two partners. The partners agreed to be together after the love
for one another has reached its apex. Sometimes it may be an influence of one
partner or both. Mostly, partners may have a reason for getting into marriage
which may differ or be the same. In a situation where partners have different
goal for the marriage make the marriage a disastrous and others who seem to
have the same goal for entering into marriage succeed. Therefore, to choose a
best matched partner you must consider the following well researched
guidelines.
1. financial
compatibility
of financial support.
The partners before marriage must identify their financial needs in order to be
able to look into the future of the union. Some people marriage because of
support that they can get from the other partner while some do not depend on
the other for any form.
2. religious
status
Some religion and
their believes have a great impact on marriage. Religion shapes a life of an
individual to extend that one may find it difficult to accept other ways of living.
So, before you choose a partner one must look into the religious practices and
their whole believe system.
3. tribe
difference
Rules and life
principles that some tribe upholds have a great influence on their choice of
partners. Every tribe is raised from a unique moral background which form their
personality. Coming together as a couple, the two partners must agree on their
differences.
4. educational
status
Education as a means
of gathering knowledge, skills and experiences which will make one accept the
other of equally educational background. Sometime education brings a great
difference among people especially when one acquires more knowledge than the
other.
5. employment
type
employment as a means
of acquiring a worth to support one partner sometimes pose a problem when the
type of the employment one chooses does not favor the other partner.
6. age
difference
we popularly say that
age is just a number, but it matters a lot when it comes to a choice of partner
in marriage. Some men prefer young girl whom they are older than in the sense
that female grow old fast when they start giving birth, but some also believe
that ladies who are old and mature get a lot of experience therefore it does
not matter whether the lady is older or not.
7. family
background
Family histories play
significant role in a choice of spouse. Some people are from a family who have
long history of some chronic disease. Some have bad attitude that you may not
know until you enter into the marriage before, they will show their real color.
8. ones
aim for the marriage
now because of
impatience a lot of people regrated marrying their partners. Some people enter
into marriage for their selfish gain. A lady may agree to marry a man because
of a favor she wants from the man. Some guys to enter into a relationship with
a lady just to get support from the lady and achieve their sexual desires other
than raising a kid.
9. personality make up
the look of a person
is the first attractive part that brings partners together for the start of the
relationship. Outside beauty easily make a lot of people fall in love despite
the bad inside character. Some people prefer marrying people with good outside
beauty or handsomeness and later regrated marrying them.
10.
One`s previous
relationship matters
Past experience in the
previous relationship issues teaches a great lesson about the kind of partner
that will be best. Some people have gone through a hell in their relationship
matters and as such they are too smart to avoid the same mistakes.